Should I treat my cat?

Last week I was placed in the situation I get placed in over and over again “If it were your cat what would you do?” This is a really hard question for me and my colleagues to answer. As a scientist I have a brain that wants to know what is happening and then make the ‘gold standard’ decision and treat appropriately. My job is about diagnosing and treating animals.

However one part of my job, that is in fact the most important, is empathy and the ability to ensure the quality of life of my patients is maintained at all times. The problem with assessing quality of life is that everyone has a different perception of what that means and everyone draws their line in the sand at a different location.

I believe pets should be able to eat, play, go to the toilet and sleep comfortably. I believe pets should give us happiness and comfort and bring a smile to our faces. When these Quality of Life factors start to go then its time.

Winnie passed away before I could publish this. Hopefully Winnie’s parents’ journey can help guide others.

Dr Geoff

If you’re facing a difficult decision about your cat’s treatment or comfort, contact Vet HQ in Darlinghurst or Double Bay. Our team will listen, guide, and support you with empathy every step of the way.

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MEET THE AUTHOR

Dr Geoff Golovsky

Dr Geoff Golovsky is the founder and Director of Vet HQ. Established in 2006, Geoff built a thriving, community-focused practice known for its exceptional care and a close-knit culture. A University of Sydney honours graduate, his career has spanned Australia, the UK, and Thailand. With professional passions in surgery, diagnostic imaging, and client connection,

Geoff believes that great veterinary medicine is built on the values of collaboration, communication, and compassion that define Vet HQ today. When not at work, he enjoys time with his wife Tammy, their three children, and their beloved pets.

Practical Insights from Dr Geoff’s Blog (Darlinghurst & Double Bay)

Quality of life is the most important measure when deciding whether to treat.

Ask yourself: can my cat eat, play, toilet, and sleep comfortably?

Every pet owner’s “line in the sand” is different, and that’s okay.

Talk to your vet honestly about comfort, pain, and what your cat enjoys most.

Key Takeaways from Dr Geoff’s Blog Vet Darlinghurst & Double Bay

Treatment decisions aren’t only about science, they’re about empathy and respect for each pet’s comfort.

Each family defines “quality of life” differently, but vets can guide the discussion gently and honestly.

Eating, playing, toileting, and sleeping comfortably are core wellbeing markers.

At Vet HQ Darlinghurst and Double Bay, Dr Geoff helps families navigate these difficult choices with compassion and clarity.

Book your pet’s appointment today and experience trusted, compassionate care from our dedicated Vet HQ team

FAQs for our Vet HQ Family

How do I know when it’s time to stop treatment for my cat?

Vet HQ recommends focusing on comfort: if your cat can no longer eat, sleep, move, or enjoy interaction, it may be time to discuss next steps with your vet.

What does “quality of life” mean for pets?

It means being free from pain and able to perform basic functions, such as eating, playing, toileting, and resting comfortably. At Vet HQ, we assess this together with compassion and transparency.

Can treatment ever cause more harm than good?

Sometimes. At Vet HQ Darlinghurst and Double Bay, we always balance the benefits of treatment with the potential stress or discomfort it may cause; your cat’s well-being comes first.

How can Vet HQ help me decide what’s right for my pet?

We guide you through each option, explain the medical and emotional implications, and ensure you never face the decision alone.

What support is available for owners after euthanasia or loss?

Vet HQ provides aftercare guidance and grief support resources, helping you navigate the loss with dignity, understanding, and continued care.